Consequences
of Stress on Children’s Development
Poverty
This is a story that my daddy shared with me when I was
young. He told me how when he was a young boy he did not attend school he had
to work in the fields to help support the family. He said he worked doing farm
work from sun up to sun down and one time he got paid with a pair of shoes that
was too big for his feet. He said he was very angry about that. He said they
had to walk everywhere they went. They went without a lot of things because
they did not have any extra money to buy them.
My daddy was 22 when he married my mother who was 17. They lived
with his mother for a while. They finally got a house of their own. My mother
and father both worked while my grandmother my mother’s mom babysat. My father got his first public job at a lumber
mill where he worked during all sort of weather. My oldest sister was soon born,
18 months later another sister was born. My mother and father saved their money and
built a house I and my baby sister were born buy now. One of my father’s cousin
moved in to help with keeping the children and housework while my mother continue
to work outside the home.
The house did not have inside plumbing or central heat. But
they had a home for their family. This is where my daddy’s story stop and mines
began. In the later years they remodeled
the house and my mother lives there still.
My daddy worked hard all his live to provide a good home for
his family and he did just that. We were poor but I did not know it thanks to
the satisfices and hard work of my parents. My sister and I had all our needs
met and some many of our wants. My dad taught himself to write his name, how to
add and subtract and how to read a little. We were born and rise in poverty but we were
determine not to stay there. My daddy passed May, 2013 but his determination
and strength live on in his children and grandchildren.
Poverty in South Africa
Poverty is a stressor that is apparently all over the world.
It has been eighteen years since the apartheid ended in South Africa now it is
said to be one of the most unequal societies in the world and it has 19 million
children who bear the brunt of this disconnection (Nicholson, 2012). In South
African 60% of the children cry themselves to sleep at night because of the
lack of proper food (Nicholson, 2012). Children
and their families are often too poor to purchase the necessities. They live in
inadequate housing, lack of clean water, lack of education and many live with their
mother only.
There are many policy and programs that have been put in
place to assist in this matter but as of now only a few has been successful. Children
begin abandon by parents to survive the best way they can has added to the
number of children in poverty. Many babies are born malnourished at birth. Education
is the single most important factor in stopping the transmission of poverty
from one generation to the next.
Poverty is a worldwide problem even here in the United
States there are children who goes to bed hunger. We have many resources to
assist families here in the United States but yet the number of families are
steadily increasing.
Reference
Nicholson,
Z., (2012). Most black SA kids live in poverty- study. www.iol.co.za/...South-africa/most-black-sa-kids-live-in-poverty-study-1.1